{"id":6730,"date":"2019-04-01T12:52:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-01T16:52:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/?p=6730"},"modified":"2019-04-01T12:53:04","modified_gmt":"2019-04-01T16:53:04","slug":"comparison-is-the-thief-of-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/2019\/04\/01\/comparison-is-the-thief-of-joy\/","title":{"rendered":"Comparison is the Thief of Joy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The title of this post is one of my favorite quotes from Theodore Roosevelt, and it&#8217;s something I try to remind myself of on a regular basis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this world of social media and everyone trying to put their best foot forward, it&#8217;s hard to feel like we&#8217;re not constantly being compared to everyone else.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I often talk about how I&#8217;m a proud back-of-the-pack racer.  I joke that I like to get my money&#8217;s worth out of a course.  And generally, I don&#8217;t mind being on the slower side.  I&#8217;ve met some great people while out on race courses as we hang out in the back of the pack.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But sometimes, as people are busting out amazing race times, I wonder if maybe I&#8217;m not good enough, even when I&#8217;m out there doing my best and breaking my own records.   It&#8217;s a feeling I&#8217;m sure a lot of people have, as they watch others chasing BQs and Kona qualifiers.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One thing I&#8217;ve decided to do is be more vocal about my personal accomplishments, show that we can all be proud of ourselves, regardless of paces.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last week, though it made me a bit nervous, I posed a screenshot of my morning swim.  I swam 3500 yards on a Monday morning.  While I often share my distances, I don&#8217;t often share how long those distances take me.  But this time, I decided to go for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/25b3b153-f9ee-487c-bed6-f2b68a08276d.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6735\" width=\"381\" height=\"381\" srcset=\"http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/25b3b153-f9ee-487c-bed6-f2b68a08276d.jpg 750w, http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/25b3b153-f9ee-487c-bed6-f2b68a08276d-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/elbowglitter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/25b3b153-f9ee-487c-bed6-f2b68a08276d-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 381px) 100vw, 381px\" \/><figcaption>I was very tired by the time this day was over.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>And you know what?  It felt kind of good to put it out there.  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